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Song Title: “So Long My Friend”
Album: “Faded Sorrow – Piano Collections”
BPM: 60
Mood: Sad, longing, reflective
Duration: 1:48
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About “So Long My Friend”
Losing a beloved pet is a profound and heartfelt experience that can bring a wave of emotions. The bond we share with our furry companions transcends words, and their absence leaves an indescribable void in our lives. The loss of a pet can evoke feelings of grief, sadness and emptiness.
The grieving process after losing a pet is unique to each individual. It’s essential to mourn and reminisce about the happy memories we shared. Talking about our pet with others who understand the depth of this loss can be healing. The process for me came about in writing this piece So Long My Friend. My dog’s name was Bruce. He was a cross-breed between a rottweiler and a pitbull. His nature was very pleasant and calm. He was my friend. He was found with cancer in his left leg and was in so much pain towards the end of his life. We made the painful decision to put Bruce down as we couldn’t guarantee quality of life nor did we have all the funds to operate.
The Music
This musical piece is perfect for remembering our pets who have passed away and the special memories they left behind.
So Long My Friend has a sweet melody is introduced at the beginning. The rhythmical motif (dotted notes and syncopation) reoccurs throughout the entire piece. This rhythmical motif is a simple and short motif that it makes it distinctive and quite easy to remember. It creates a melody that has this rise and fall that creates a longing or cry but maintains tenderness and sweetness to it that depicts Bruce’s personality. The melody sits over simple harmonic changes in the left hand. This was the perfect tribute song to my friend, Bruce.
Remembering our departed pets and celebrating their lives can bring solace. Creating a memorial, sharing stories and photos, or participating in rituals that honour their memory can help with the healing process. It is through these acts of remembrance that we keep their spirit alive in our hearts.
This is a beautiful musical piece to listen to when remembering deceased pets and the impact they had on our lives.